I'm rather happy to have BKW as a reference. Time and again he(they) is able to put succinctly into words what I'd like to say:
"There is no mistaking the way form satisfies. But the best lessons we learn come in those moments when the outcome isn’t certain. They come in the day’s great challenge when we muster, moments that may have occurred kilometers before the ending. Sitting up in triumph isn’t the victory. Living the PROgram is the victory."
Full article here: The PROgram